![]() She’ll subconsciously stand/sit with her toes pointed toward whoever she’s paying the most attention to. Women tend to talk faster to a man they like, and their voice pitch increases as a result. If she’s interested, she’ll copy your body language subconsciously (she’ll move when you move). here's her body language signs to look for (all of these indicate that she likes you): and send those same body language signals to her. …But after you’ve made a good first impression, you can 'read' her subconscious, genuine feelings through her body language. because if you concentrate on reading her instead of listening, she’ll get a bad first impression of you: a guy who doesn’t focus on what she’s saying. I mentioned above, to only concentrate on body language after you’ve gotten to know a girl (had more than one meeting). They have to be genuine. meaning don't ask a girl who’s drinking wine what beer she would order, or a girl in sweaty gym clothes for fashion advice, or a girl who’s running with headphones in if she wants to play Frisbee. Questions are a powerful way to break the ice because they immediately tell her that you value her ideas (and being valued is a hugely desired trait for women).īut here’s the most important thing to remember with any of these ideas: …Now, you might have noticed that most of those ideas were questions. ![]() Would you want to play?” (Works in a bar, too!) or “What’s the best running/biking trail around here?” Which tie do you think looks best with this shirt?”Īt a park: “We need another player for Frisbee/darts/any game. Have you tried it?” or “I’m new to this place… what would you order?”Īt a store: “I’m getting a gift for my sister/friend… which of these two things would you choose?” or “I’m picking out a suit for a wedding. Waiting for the bartender at a local brewery: “This place has the best microbrew selection. After you say ‘hey’, talk about the interest you share. Now, how to get a girl to like you is to use that common interest to your advantage. That way, your natural connection is obvious… you have a common interest in that place! Well, if you followed step 2 of our approach anxiety guide, you’re attempting to talk to women in a place where you already have a common interest (coffee shops, parks, gyms, or bookstores). How the hell do you know if you and this woman you just met have a common interest? To make any girl subconsciously like you more as soon as she sees you, stand/sit up straight when you talk to her. I mentioned that you feel taller/more powerful with good posture… and that not only helps how you feel, but it helps you how she sees you. You immediately project a tall, powerful confidence (and do I really need to tell you that confidence is attractive?). Good posture highly boosts natural attractiveness. ![]() And the best part? This step, unlike other body language tricks, is so incredibly easy to do that it won’t take your focus off her and the moment (see tip #5 below). Good posture instantly makes you feel taller and more powerful when you approach a woman. Good posture instantly boosts confidence. I mentioned the importance of this in our article on approach anxiety… because it honestly is the best (most powerful and natural) thing you can do for your confidence and attractiveness. Here's why: 1. Initiating eye contact like that can make her like you (because she feels that you’re friendly) immensely more before you even have to speak. Then when you catch her eye, smile, and a few seconds later, say hey to her. …So before you speak at all, position yourself near her for a few minutes (go next to her to order a drink, warm up close to her on the track, browse near her in the store). They stand close to a girl, and deliver their line before they either forget it or lose their nerve… and they don’t realize that to her, it’s jarring (and feels forced) to hear a random greeting before she even sees the person saying it. …And because they’re doing that, they forget one of the most natural steps in meeting a new person and how to get a girl to like you: A lot of times, men feel they have to ‘warm up’ to approach a girl: they’ll practice their body language, and rehearse what they’ll say (both things I actually don’t recommend… see tip #s 2 and 4). ![]()
0 Comments
Leave a Reply. |